Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Lucy's hypnobabies birth story

I finally sat down and wrote half of Lucy's birth story. The other half will be posted tomorrow at 8:07 am pst to celebrate sweet Lucy turning one month old.

One thing about hypnobabies - you use different words to describe common birthing phrases. Pressure waves = contractions. Birthing time = labor.

Thursday, July 22, just after midnight
I wake up a little after midnight with pressure waves that are quite regular and strong. I listen to the "Early First Stage" track, and soon after that was done I decide that this is it! I woke up Mark and convinced him it was absolutely necessary to get up and clean the bathroom and the loft, do some laundry, etc. This is it! So exciting! And only a day past my due date! I get back into bed and turn on my ipod and try to get a little sleep.

Thursday, July 22, morning
My pressure waves are farther apart and not as strong, but still coming. I call my mom and ask her to start driving up here. (She has to drive up from Utah, and is taking 2 days to do so. I planned on having her arrive after I had the baby.) I would be having the baby today!


Thursday, July 22, afternoon
Faint, irregular pressure waves. Quite discouraged, but still hopeful. Mark has spent the whole day with me, instead of working. The girls have been with Grandma all day. I'm starting to feel quite silly.

Thursday, July 22, late evening
Pressure waves are picking up, hurrah!


Friday, July 23, morning

Call my mom, sobbing. The pressure waves have almost completely stopped. I will never have the baby, and my mom has already driven half-way up to my house. I cry and complain and whine. After I get off the phone with her, Mark gives me a no-nonsense pep talk and I decide that life must go on. I take the girls to town and stop by a few garage sales. I feel better when we get back.


Friday, July 23, evening

Nothing. But my mom arrives, which is a welcome distraction.

Saturday, July 24, morning and afternoon
Pressure waves throughout the day, becoming stronger. I ignore them.
Sort of.

Saturday, July 24, evening

I'm exhausted, hot, and completely break down because the apple berry crisp I made is too runny. Mark is working late, putting in the hay. I try to ignore the pressure waves that are coming more often.


Saturday, July 24, 11pm

Mark gets home and we watch an episode of Jim Henson's Storytellers on Netflix. I tell him, very hesitantly, that maybe my pressure waves just might be getting stronger. We head to bed.
Mark is asleep in about 12 seconds, but it takes me a little longer.

Sunday, July 25, early, early morning

My pressure waves continue all night. They are 10-15 minutes apart, but growing stronger. I'm able to get quite a bit of rest/sleep by listening to my hypnobabies tracks. I'm pretty sure I would not have slept otherwise, but my after months of falling asleep listening to these tracks I found it so easy to relax and let any worries or stress go.


Sunday, July 25, 5 am-ish

I wake Mark up. My pressure waves have suddenly jumped from about 10 minutes apart to about 6 minutes apart. They are strong. I feel a lot of tightening and squeezing and a dull ache during the pressure waves. Mark times them for a little while, then calls the midwife to tell her that I think I'm really approaching my birthing time...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I bid on an won a hypnobabies homestudy course since your last post - thank you for the encouragement! Can't wait to read the rest of your story - and what a sweet shot of your girls.

stephanie said...

I love this post. I love it. I've been a labor and delivery nurse for 2 years and I've had one patient using the hypnobabies program. We deliver 12,000+ babies a year, so that is ONE woman in 24,000 that used it. She was a first time mom and did AMAZINGLY well. She was such an inspiration and I loved working with her. I've wanted to become a midwife for so long, but being in the labor & delivery setting has chipped away at that desire and I hate that. I hope, that by reading more stories like this one, and by remembering patients like the one I had, that my desire will grow again. :)

I am SO proud of you and I am SO grateful that you are sharing your story here.

Thank you.

.::Our Waldorf Home Mama::. said...

I better get on this hypno babies thing! I only have 2.5 mo left!!!

~Samantha